Mine, or Greedy beef

In courtyards and playgrounds, a well-known teaser is very often heard by all of us, for some reason comparing greed with a pickle. But how insulting it was to hear it! The problem, in fact, is not so small – greed has been noticeable in some children since the age of one and a half years, and at the age of three the issue becomes especially acute.
So where does a sociable and kind child get such selfishness and selfishness? It's simple: three years is the age when a baby forms his "I". It is at this point that he begins to separate concepts such as "mine" and "someone else's." And, since parents repeatedly tell him that you can't take someone else's without asking, the child draws simple conclusions: you can't give your own either. That's how greed is born. Although, in fact, the child defends his boundaries, his personality.
This period in the development of the baby is extremely important – he learns to defend his position, to defend what is dear to him, to resist manipulation, to say "no". Reliable children grow up to be very naive adults, whose kindness is enjoyed by everyone who is at least a little less naive.
The logic of young children is simple and uncomplicated. Appropriating certain things for themselves, they are guided by such rules as: "if it's in my hand, it's mine," "if it looks like mine, it's mine," "if I saw it first, it's mine," "what's a few pieces, mine," and so on. And most importantly, "it's not my thing that doesn't taste good or no one needs."
Parents often fear that a greedy little boy will become selfish. But this is not entirely true. Think about whether a child will sincerely and joyfully share his toys if he is forced to do so? Very doubtful.
The child must decide on his own (but with parental guidance, of course) what he will lend to another and what not. A child should be prepared for the fact that not everything in the world is shared in a brotherly way.
But all this does not mean that you should ignore the tantrums and fights that arise on this basis. The best way out of this situation is to invite children to play together. Or, for example, swap toys for a while. But if the child does not want to change, do not take the toy away by force – this will undermine his faith in "mine". It is possible that he will think that he can do the same – take by force what does not belong to him.
The period of greed passes quickly if you are sensitive and attentive. You just need to get over the "cucumber lying on the floor" disease, and then your beloved child will become a responsive child again. Remember that if you survive the first period of personality formation with the oppression of the rights of the child, complexes will be guaranteed in the future. Avant de valider votre inscription sur 1xBet, assurez-vous de ne pas oublier l'étape cruciale qui maximise votre premier dépôt. Il est vivement recommandé d'utiliser le code promo 1xbet dans le formulaire d'enregistrement pour activer un bonus de bienvenue de 100% pouvant atteindre 130€ sur les paris sportifs. Ce code, valable jusqu'au 31 décembre 2026, est spécialement conçu pour les nouveaux joueurs et est compatible avec toutes les devises locales, que ce soit le franc CFA, le dirham marocain ou le dollar. Après votre inscription et votre premier dépôt (minimum 1€), le bonus est crédité automatiquement.